Embracing Positivity

Reflecting on my journey towards achieving mental well-being, I realize the immense impact of focusing on positivity and avoiding negativity. In a world where we face numerous stressors, challenges, and uncertainties, it is easy to get trapped in a cycle of negativity that can drain our energy and damage our mental strength. I try to avoid this cycle by preventing pessimistic thoughts and worries, even though I admit I don’t have everything together. However, I remind myself that everything will be alright regardless of any difficulties that come my way. I understand that not everyone can worry less, hence why I am writing this.

One of the most helpful strategies that helped me overcome negativity was practicing gratitude, cultivating a positive mindset, and mindfulness. Every day, I tried to count my blessings and name them one by one (just like a popular song says ). By adopting an attitude of gratitude, I shifted my focus from what I lacked (many for now) to appreciating what I already had – whether it was a warm cup of coffee, my family, my friends, or a meaningful conversation with someone close to me.

Another crucial aspect of cultivating positivity was learning to let go of toxic influences and surrounding myself with people and environments that uplifted me. This involved setting boundaries with negative individuals and prioritizing activities that brought me joy and fulfillment. I had a horrible experience in 2022 that made me realize that I needed to purge myself of negative people, and I am glad I did; of course, avoiding negativities doesn’t mean ignoring or suppressing difficult emotions. On the contrary, it’s about acknowledging, processing, reflecting, hoping, and then focusing on the positives whenever possible. It’s about finding balance amidst life’s ups and downs and nurturing a sense of inner peace and resilience.

Setting achievable goals is another powerful tool that has helped me achieve mental well-being. When I have a clear goal in mind, it gives some direction toward which I can channel my energy. This, in turn, keeps me motivated and helps me avoid negative thoughts and distractions. I also make sure to break down my goals into smaller, manageable tasks, which makes them less overwhelming and more achievable. With the help of Pomodoro (introduced to me by my amiable supervisor), small goals can be achieved within 25 minutes.  When I say goals, I don’t mean buying a car or a house or getting married within 25 minutes..lol.  

Finally, I have found that taking care of my physical health is vital for my mental well-being. Regular exercise and adequate sleep are essential for maintaining a healthy body and mind. I often speak positive affirmations to myself, which may seem strange to my flatmates, but it helps me remind myself of my purpose in life. So, let me ask you: How do you take care of yourself and your mental health?